4. напиши какими должны и не должны быть родители и дети

First of all, this is justice. Require from your child only what he is able to do. Sometimes it is necessary to be strict, nevertheless, in no case be cruel. Of course, the most important thing is moral values. A child must see that you are an honest, noble, decent person. In turn, children should be single-minded, caring, kind. Everyone understands this in their own way, the main thing is that there should be mutual understanding between the children and their parents. There are no bad children. Simply, we often forget what they are good and loved by us.